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My spouse needs more care than I can give

Options that keep a couple together, and the spousal protections Texas Medicaid provides.

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Options that keep a couple together, and the spousal protections Texas Medicaid provides.

HomeBy SituationMy spouse needs more care than I can give

Caring for a spouse is different from caring for a parent, financially and otherwise. Texas Medicaid has specific protections for the spouse who stays at home.

Short answer

Options that keep a couple together, and the spousal protections Texas Medicaid provides.

What to do, in order

  1. Understand the spousal protections. Texas Medicaid has a Community Spouse Resource Allowance so the spouse at home is not impoverished, reported at $162,660 for 2026, plus a separate monthly income allowance. Confirm current figures with HHSC or an elder law attorney.
  2. Look at communities that keep couples together. Several Austin-area campuses offer different care levels on one site, so a couple can remain close even when needs diverge. Ask specifically how couples are handled and what a second-person fee covers.
  3. Be honest about your own health. Spousal caregivers routinely under-report their own decline. The plan needs to survive you being unwell for a fortnight.
  4. Get an objective assessment. The Capital Area ADRC at 855-937-2372 can assess both of you at no cost, which is more useful than either of you assessing the other.

Questions Austin families ask

Is adult day care cheaper than assisted living in Austin?

Substantially. The Texas median for adult day health care is $90 a day, about $1,950 monthly, versus $5,666 monthly for assisted living. AGE of Central Texas runs adult day health programs in Central Austin and Round Rock with a nurse on site at all times.

Why is nursing home care listed as cheaper than assisted living in Texas?

The 2025 CareScout survey shows a Texas semi-private nursing median of $185 a day, the lowest in the nation and below the state assisted living median. That figure reflects a heavily Medicaid-weighted nursing market rather than private-pay rates. Expect an Austin private-pay quote to run considerably higher.

What does memory care cost in Austin?

There is no authoritative answer. CareScout does not survey memory care as a separate category, so no published median exists for Texas or Austin. Any memory care price quoted online is an estimate. Memory care typically prices above standard assisted living because of staffing ratios and secured building requirements.

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